Seven Ways to Get What You Want in 2008

Most of us have been taught that if we want others to cooperate with us, we have to compromise -- that is, to get something, we have to give something. There's a better way, however, to getting what you want: Start with no. So, if your New Year's resolutions for '08 include being more assertive, standing up for yourself, and reaching your goals, the "No System" can be your ticket to success. Seven steps to get moving: